My Shaadi.com nightmare
We sent an interest to a person on shaadi.com by name Manav, he portraied to be in australia and a citizen of australia. the phone number was an indian registered mobile phone with +91 in the beginning.
interest was accepted the next day and we received a call claiming that it was his brother from india. he had a long chat with me and said they liked my profile as i am indian and manav was in london (my initial surprisse) he said that the company he worked for had deputed him to london. i was happy and took manavs number. his brother told me to refrain using shaadi.com in front of manav as he did not like matrimonial websites and that his real name was raghav.
i said ok and his brother sent me a long email showing how great his family was. i fell for the trick and called him the next day. he was pleased to speak to me and asked me to meet him the same day. i said ok and went to london to meet him.
we started chatting all day and got close to each other he was ever so nice to me. i felt like a princess. i had only 2 serious relationships so no man had treated me this well. it was time for me to finish work in london and return to india as i was on a company trip.
he invited me to meet him at his place and told me he would like to take me out to meet his friends as a good bye treat. he would later come to india to marry me and bring me back. i accepted and went to his house. he started to show me pictures of his family and friends and said the party was later in the evening.
we went out for lunch to a nearby place and came back to his place. he started holding my hand and asked me out for a dance. i said ok. later started touching me which felt uncomfortable.
i asked him to back off but he kept telling that i looked beautiful and started kissing me. i said no and pushed him away. he immediately called a friend who appeared from no where and held me down. i was raped.
i cried and cried asking him to let me go but he did not accept. he later invited his friends in the evening. i was tied up and my mouth was closed. i tried to resist but was brutally raped by all of his friends who took turns.
i was left completely devastated. he knew where i lived my hotel and all my information even though i had not parted with any of these information. i was next put on a flight back to india and warned that if i tell anyone they would kill me. i took up a challenge of finding him but no go.
i went back to london tried to log a police complaint but no one would accept it as i had no evidence to prove it. he then kept me under threat for several months and i had to sleep with any man he would send. i lost my career my life and when i tried to find him or fight with him he would get mad and he killed my family in this and made me an orphan. i can never forget this incident.
i am now living at an un disclosed location in the fear that he would catch me. india is his place of operation so i could not run anywhere. i am an illegal immigrant at an undiscloded country. how does shaadi.com allow people to post profiles without screening them.
i would ask anupam mittal to check these incidents and close his *** website. this would obviously save lives of innocent people.
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You are really very stupid I guess.
Based on your review, you opted to get raped and wanted it.
Why else would you be an idiot to go to his place without letting anyone else know, or even after getting raped not inform the police in London.
The UK has strict laws on rape....
Get a life woman!
Sorry to hear your bad experience, but this can happen with any dating site or social site, though. You ALWAYS take a risk going onto those sites.
They even have scammers there who suck thousands of dollars out of unsuspecting people (they pose as active military deployed overseas but they are really poor Africans in internet cafes). It is just the terrible way of life.